Resources for establishing healthy eating patterns in children?

Hey docs,

Apologies if this has been covered in a previous podcast, but I wasn’t sure about this question specifically. Have listened to a number of the nutrition and obesity podcasts and don’t recall this being covered in detail.

As far as I understand BBM’s position, food environment plays a very significant role in adherence, caloric intake and a number of factors that create a more or less successful platform for overall health (one I wholeheartedly agree with). While I try to maintain a relatively “sound” food environment in the house at the present state, there is the reality of local cultural factors at play as well that affect overall environment in terms of food costs, commuting distances, etc that affect what people buy/eat and how much they “unconsciously” exercise.

What a diet should mostly be made up of isn’t rocket science to me at this point. What I’m less sure of are a few different things:
-How to deal with pickyness, or whether or not pickyness needs “dealing with” in the first place. I’m not striving for or expecting a “perfect” or “optimal” pattern by any stretch of the imagination
-How to conceptualize nutrition in a way that imparts principles and communicates the gravity of consistency over the period of one’s life, while avoiding fearmongering or a “perfection” attitude
-How to conceptualize nutrition and the tie of weight management to health while divorcing it (as much as possible) from concepts of self-worth, “body image”, etc

I have young daughters (<7y/o), so the last point is especially important and somewhat difficult for me to come to a conclusion on. The numerous socio-cultural and biological factors at play regarding women’s beliefs about self, body image and their relation to food means that this point seems to be particularly difficult for many if not most women. I’ve heard all number of approaches to these from various nutritionists, but I’m not really certain which is evidence-based, or at least comes from practical wisdom (which I’m also perfectly fine with, collections of anecdotes aren’t useless even if not formal recommendations). I’ve heard everything from “dessert is just food and should be included wherever”, “don’t condemn any food items including ultraprocessed food”, etc, but I’m also intent on raising my children as realists and equipping them over the long haul. Body-image and similar isn’t a topic of conversation yet, so looking to pre-empt as much as possible when it does arise, but we’ve had conversations about people having unique body-types, the importance of exercise as staying strong regardless of one’s preferences, etc.

My strategy thus far has been to emphasize whole foods, lean protein as a building block, healthy fats and fruit/veg. I don’t generally restrict access to any whole food. I do mention that fries or ice-cream or similar can be eaten occasionally as a treat but that it’s fundamentally not “what your body is looking for when hungry”. Those things are generally unavailable in the house on a day-to-day basis. I should also mention that I disallow any form of social media or general “free media” access aside from specifically curated films, so I’m not as concerned about cultural and social bleed-in at this point.

Is there much to do beyond this? Any resource ideas would be much appreciated.

Thanks!

RVR,

I can understand the importance of this not only to you, but to others as well. Unfortunately, I do not have a lot of information to provide to you from either a professional or practical standpoint (I don’t children).

I think you’re likely doing the right thing, but I don’t really have a lot to add without a lot more self study. In saying that, I do think these topics deserve a thorough treatment.

-Jordan

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Yea, I agree that the 2020 to 2025 Dietary Guidelines for Americans are good. However, virtually no one meets them and it’s typically not an issue with lack of information. Thus, the reason I didn’t share this is that they don’t really interact with the OP’s questions re: behaviors and habit formation with respect to dietary pattern, weight management, etc. across the lifespan.

Additionally, items 2 through 4 are made up with respect to supporting evidence. While they may be reasonable suggestions, I don’t feel comfortable amplifying them as evidence based practices, especially with respect to major determinants of food environments.

Anyway, I appreciate the discussion and as I mentioned, I think this deserves some more attention from us.

-Jordan

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Thanks for the responses and encouragement. It was admittedly a fairly big ask, as even pinning down how to establish lifelong eating habits and intentionally shaping food environment is something I’m not particularly certain of, irrespective of accompanying self-image issues.
I appreciate the posting of the dietary guidelines as well in respect to modeling behaviour and teaching children. I think that while there may not be a great deal of objective evidence to support items 2-4, wisdom dictates, and since there’s virtually no other way to teach other than to model, instruct and involve, I can’t think of another overall strategy to pay attention to in lieu of available evidence laying out alternatives (I think anyone who has parented kids will see item 2 as self-evident even if it’s not a formally evidence-based recommendation; I’m sure at least an argument could be made from developmental psychology and similar).

All I have to go on are observations though, and while I’m relatively confident on a 10 000ft level about overall strategy, the specifics are tricky. I don’t know if:
a) the above is a foolproof strategy for establishing lifelong eating habits, irrespective of accompanying self-image pathology
b) there is a foolproof strategy, or if the food/social environment dictates far more than any strategy can help with, and whether or not this is individual
c) there are additional ways of conceptualizing food that helps or harms food habits that may be counterintuitive at face value – does condemning ultraprocessed food as “junk” help? Does allowing this into the diet help regulate it? Would any strategy be entirely individual or relatively generalizable?
d) food habits and conceptions around food are divorceable from self-image. Perhaps the best one can hope for is the establishment of adherence to healthy patterns, and gradual improvement in self-image via other strategies
e) this goal is achieved by emphasizing completely different aspects of behaviour, such as placing a high value on lifelong fitness and fostering sound emotional and psychological health/self-regulation

Looking forward to this topic if you decide to tackle it!