I need to stop splurging l

Good evening Barbell Medicine,

Hope you all enjoyed the holidays and Happy New Year to you all! As it is now the new year, I hoping to accomplish several goals I set myself this year, and one of them is to stop high-calorie splurging weekly. For the most part about 5-6 days a week, I tend to have an overall healthy diet. I have lots of fruits and vegetables daily, my SFA is pretty low, eat mostly chicken, and stick with Whole Foods for the most part. I do tend to snack daily but I keep it very minimal for the most part and make sure I don’t go over my caloric intake goals. Now, one concern I have with my dietary pattern that I really want to cut out is going on a binge at least once or twice a week. It gets very difficult for me at times to force myself not to do it, but I either get restless, can’t stop thinking about it, and even sometimes walk to the kitchen without grabbing anything and walk back to my room (Yes lol). Sometimes it works, but a lot of the times it doesn’t: I tend to binge on sweets and go as far as eating a ton of crackers, chips, cookies, and even a full tub of ice cream consuming an absurd amount of SFAS and carbs. This happens at both the office and home, since people are always bringing in snacks & sweets and it’s very hard me to resist. I’m not really a big fan on completely abstaining on treats you enjoy, but at the same time it can be very difficult for me to eat in moderation. Always has been.

I currently weigh around 157-160 lbs with ~32.5 waist circumference that I’ve been able to keep for quite a while. My goal for the past 2-3 months was to lower it ~31 inches and gain weight at a very slow rate but I know this habit of mine is definitely preventing me to reach that goal. The obvious solution is stop binge eating once or twice a week, but for me it’s very difficult to do so. Since I was a kid I have always, and probably will always have a sweet tooth and I want to continue life by eating the foods I love but learning to do so in moderations and not eat a tub of Ben & Jerry’s in one sitting. I also try to think about long term consequences eating like this and think about I won’t be able to reach my goals if I continue to eat like this, but it’s just not working out for me. I also feel that I shouldn’t tell my family and coworkers to stop buying snacks/sweets cus I’d just look inconsiderate to them. How can I learn to control myself and not binge when snacks are easily accessible in the house/office? Here’s some information about myself that may help

Age: 25
BW: 157-160
WC: ~32.5
Typical Macros on a non binge day: 120gC 145gP 32gF (I tend to aim for 2.0g/kg of protein). SFA intake is around 10g
Current training: I was running the PL II template, but I unfortunately came across with some low back pain that would not go away even with modifications for the past 6-7 weeks, so I am now running the LBP rehab template and I am feeling pretty good hoping to get back to baseline soon.

Thank you BBM for everything you guys do! Enjoy Miami and I can’t see what’s in store for 2020.

There’s no one-size-fits all recommendation here and this is definitively consult territory.

That said, the goal would be to include foods you binge on in smaller amounts in your regular diet. As far as strategies to do that, it’s highly individual.

Also, you can say no to whatever you want as an adult. Not every meal, snack, or occasion is special. If everything is special, nothing is special, you know?

-Jordan